曾被美國(guó)《時(shí)代》周刊稱為“25位較有影響力的美國(guó)人之一”的柯維先生，也就是我們熟悉的《高效能人士的7個(gè)習(xí)慣》的作者，曾經(jīng)還專門(mén)針對(duì)孩子寫(xiě)過(guò)另外兩本著作：《The 7 Habits of Happy Kids》和《The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens》。美國(guó)學(xué)校把它們歸納為孩子成長(zhǎng)的“7棵習(xí)慣樹(shù)”。

　　這幅海報(bào)用一棵大樹(shù)來(lái)比喻孩子一生中要培養(yǎng)的好習(xí)慣。

　　從樹(shù)根開(kāi)始從下往上，這7個(gè)習(xí)慣像一棵樹(shù)一樣逐漸長(zhǎng)成，分別是：

　　1. Be proactive

　　2. Begin with the end inmind

　　3. Put first things first

　　4. Think win-win

　　5. Seek first to understand,then to be understoo

　　6. Synergize

　　7. Sharpen the saw

　　下面，來(lái)看看對(duì)這7個(gè)習(xí)慣的注解：

　　第1個(gè)習(xí)慣

　　Be proactive - you'rein charge

　　積極主動(dòng)，我的人生我負(fù)責(zé)

　　I am a responsible person.I take initiative. I choose my actions, attitudes and moods. I do not blameothers for my wrong actions. I do the right thing without being asked, evenwhen no one is looking。

　　我對(duì)自己負(fù)責(zé)，做事積極主動(dòng)。我管理自己的行為、態(tài)度和情緒。我做了錯(cuò)事不怪別人。不用別人說(shuō)我也會(huì)去做正確的事情，哪怕沒(méi)有人在看。

　　第2個(gè)習(xí)慣

　　Begin with the end in mind- Have a plan

　　有目標(biāo)，有計(jì)劃

　　I plan ahead and set goals.I do things that have meaning and make a difference. I am an important part ofmy classroom and contribute to my school's mission and vision. I look ways tobe a good citizen。

　　做事前我會(huì)定計(jì)劃和目標(biāo)。我做有意義和帶來(lái)積極影響的事。我是班級(jí)里的重要一員，為學(xué)校事務(wù)做貢獻(xiàn)。我希望成為一個(gè)好公民。

　　第3個(gè)習(xí)慣

　　Put first things first -Work first, then play

　　做事分主次，先工作，后娛樂(lè)

　　I spend my time on thingsthat are most important. This means I say no to things I know I should not do.I set priorities, make a schedule, and follow my plan. I am disciplined andorganized。

　　我在重要的事情上花時(shí)間。不該做的事，我勇于說(shuō)不。我制定優(yōu)先級(jí)，做日程表，執(zhí)行我的計(jì)劃。我對(duì)自己有紀(jì)律，做事井井有條。

　　第4個(gè)習(xí)慣

　　Think win-win - Everyonecan win

　　從互贏角度考慮問(wèn)題，利己利人

　　I balance courage forgetting what I want with consideration for what others want. I make deposits inothers' Emotional Bank Accounts. When conflicts arise, I look for thirdalternatives。

　　我勇于爭(zhēng)取自己想要的，但是我同時(shí)也會(huì)考慮別人的需求。我在別人的情感銀行帳號(hào)里放下我的存款。有矛盾的時(shí)候，我尋求能平衡彼此需求的解決方案。

　　第5個(gè)習(xí)慣

　　Seek first to understand,then to be understood

　　先去理解別人，再求被人理解

　　I listen to other people'sideas and feelings. I try to see things from their viewpoints. I listen toothers without interrupting. I am confident in voicing my ideas. I look peoplein the eyes when talking。

　　我仔細(xì)聆聽(tīng)別人的主意和情感。我努力從他人角度去理解問(wèn)題。聽(tīng)別人說(shuō)話的時(shí)候我不插嘴、不打擾。我很有信心說(shuō)出我自己的主意。別人說(shuō)話的時(shí)候，我直視他的眼睛。

　　第6個(gè)習(xí)慣

　　Synergize - Togetheris better

　　協(xié)同-合作會(huì)更好

　　I value other people'sstrengths and learn from them. I get along well with others, even people whoare different than me. I work well in groups. I seek out other people's ideasto solve problems because I know that by teaming with others we can createbetter solutions than anyone of us can alone. I am humble。

　　我珍重別人的優(yōu)點(diǎn)，向他們學(xué)習(xí)。我和大家很好相處，即使他們和我很不一樣。我能有效地進(jìn)行團(tuán)隊(duì)合作，因?yàn)槲抑篮献鞅葐未颡?dú)斗能帶來(lái)更好的解決方案。我保持謙虛的精神。

　　第7個(gè)習(xí)慣

　　Sharpen the saw-Balancefeels best

　　磨刀不誤砍柴工，尋求健康和平衡

　　I take care of my bodyeating right, exercising and getting sleep. I spend time with family andfriends. I learn in lots of ways and lots of places, not just at school. I findmeaningful ways to help others。

　　我主意飲食、鍛煉和睡眠。我花時(shí)間和家人、朋友在一起。我在各種地方都能以各種方式學(xué)到很多東西-學(xué)習(xí)的地方可不止于學(xué)校。我用有意義的方式去幫助別人。